Tumblr's looking like toast as of Dec 17. Find me in future at: https://lifestylenthusiast2.bdsmlr.com I'm a midlife guy who's seen a few things and spent a lot of time dwelling upon dominance and submission. I've had a little experience. Here you'll find female-on-top, male-on-top, some bi (both sides) and some items that are just...dirty. Consenual, safe, sane, age-appropriate (allowing for grown-up age play), things that are simply beautiful or otherwise thought provoking.